In Christ, we see the true character of God. Rom. 5:6 says when were utterly helpless, Christ died for the ungodly.
It was when we were in sin that God demonstrated his love for us. That shows how unconditional his love is. It has nothing to do do with what we do or don’t do. He freely loves us.
Thoughts such, “When you don’t forgive, God won’t forgive you. When you don’t live right, God will punish you. When you don’t give, God will withhold prosperity from you etc” are not from God.
They do not depict the character of God demonstrated in Redemption. He freely gives without expecting anything. The only way we can live to his glory is to fully embrace all that he has done for us and walk in it. Here, our works will simply be a fruit of enjoying his grace.
*You’re deeply loved!*